Pain!

My toes are officially bruised.

The new pair of shoes from prettyfit really symbolises the brand's name. Pretty and fits really well. Too well. Okay, maybe the reason is that they are pointed shoes, and as we know, pointed shoes do tend to crush people's toes. Major Ouch.

I have a feeling the ramifications will last for some time..

haha. enough of mundane topics. I shall talk about much more interesting things=)

last friday, sharon, grace and I met up for some books and shoes shopping, and a late drink at Starbucks. Thanks girls, for the much-needed time together and for the things we talked about..haha, I spilled my guts out that day. Not literally of course..but I really did talk about some feelings I've had for quite some time already..and I think yet another issue is somewhat resolved..

I guess for me, and for many of us out there, we just want to be a good friend, a good companion..and at times we start to question whether we do meet the standard or not. And for the past few years, I've been questioning whether or not I'm a good friend, and I've been trying to be more sensitive and all that it has somehow over-whelmed me. after the talk, the truth finally sank in. I do need to be mindful of what I say, and friendship does need effort and all, but with your close friends, the pressure is off. Be mindful of what you say and do, but not to the extent where you feel restrained, and not to the extent where you pretend.

for me, I've realised, I need to not be so easily offended, to be less sensitive to what others say, and to know that the closeness of our friendship ties is not based on how I feel at particular moments. And I realised also, that sometimes, we say some things, and we do other things. Or sometimes, we don't mean what we say. We do need to correct this flaw in us, but like what I told ronnie, with the people close to us, our feelings are always there, and are true, even though our words may not carry through at times..

okay, enough of the sombre topics. haha, what's with me today? Mundane and sombre topics..

on a lighter note, I'm going to try my hand at poetry soon!so watch this space for upcoming poems!but as with all writing, it will only be up when inspiration strikes=)

haha.

another week ahead, Lord, may You see us through it and may You bless this week and draw us closer to You=)